lol, from afar

Put two and two together

Of course, in order to believe that you would marry and possibly have kids with that person means that you have found a special friendship with that person that you’ve never had before and/or possibly feel as though you will never find that connection in anyone else in your future. You’re supposed to establish that friendship in order to have trust and loyalty in that other individual, especially in both life-time long commitments. So if the relationship or even marriage falls through (kids are irrelevant in this situation, it’s just a plus) you should still have that friendship foundation to fall back on. If that isn’t the case, then something is wrong, but that’s based upon different factors that I could write about for hours. The key is to be honest with yourself. Admit your feelings, concerns, insecurities, just get it all out the way in effort to establish great communication, which is the most important fact to a wonderful friendship. Also, it takes two. Both individuals have to adjust and compromise. The worst thing I think someone could do once you break-up is keep distance, there is no benefit and you prevent your ex from enjoying their life and a chance to move on. … but what do I know, I haven’t been committed to anyone for the past almost going on 3 years. To sum it all up….Yes, I believe in it but it’s something I could imagine to be very difficult since a committed relationship is just an advanced friendship with physical and/or intellectual attraction.